I don't like holding grudges but many of people tend to do it. All you are doing is hurting yourself, all you have to do is learn to forgive and forget. Things happen, everyone makes mistakes, its life and I think forgiveness is a big part in life. You never know when something bad is going too happen so you never want too be mad at someone and then something bad happens and you never got the chance to say anything. That person may be like me and not care whether they don't forgive me or not, in my opinion that's their choice whether they want to forgive me or not. If they don't want to I'm not going to cry about it!